Monday, November 10, 2008

Why technology and dating (and dummies) don't mix:

Summary of email to Boy A:  I profess to be too busy to worry too much about dating right now, hoping to explain why I haven't called him yet though he gave me his number a week ago.  

Phone call with Boy B:  First call ever, we chatted a long while.

Text from Boy A:  He says hi, thanks for your email, let's keep in touch for when there's time.

Text to friend Tiffany about Boy B (she is also juggling this single-mom-dating-thing):  "We talked.  He sounds pretty good... but he laughs a lot.  A LOT.  Argh why am I so PICKY!!!"

I press "send"... and in a panic see that it's going to Boy A,  NOT  Tiffany.

I press "Cancel"

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CANCEL...

.......it sends anyway.

My fingers freeze and forget how to text as I rapidly try to undo what I've just done.  I can't figure out how to spell words, the caps get all screwed up, I accidentally cancel and have to start over - THREE times.

I finally text to Boy A: "Okay, most embarassing thing in the world, that was meant for my sister.  Ignore it!"

at the same time I receive text from Boy A"Ok, this is funny, I'm pretty sure you sent this to the wrong person.  But pretty funny!"

I profusely apologize again and text how embarassed I am and he says no worries, "How often does that happen to anyone?"  I joke about telling the story to his coworkers.  

Boy A texts:  "No kidding.  I just know I shouldn't laugh too much when I talk to you and you are really picky."

I jokingly respond (my face is bright red and I keep saying "OhmygoshOhmygoshOhmygosh" into my pillow) and then:

Boy A's final parting text:  "It's all good.  I promise I won't bring this up again until after your busy season :) "

14 comments:

faith said...

is it okay if i laugh at this? alaina, i think you're great. :)

Jody said...

Oh, this makes my stomach hurt just reading it! I think I've made similar blunders with texting and instant messaging... although, I don't recall one quite that sitcom-worthy. Good recovery, though.

The Crabtree Chronicles said...

Hey, if that can roll off of his back that easy, maybe he deserves a second look? That is too funny though, thanks for sharing!

Alexa said...

Oh. NO. I would have DIED! It does sound like you recovered as nicely as possible. Whew!

By the way, I'll be mailing your neck pillows today. :)

Mindy said...

i have done this before---back in the days of AOL instant messaging....oh i can remember that feeling when my stomach dropped and i felt like i might pass out! Pure panic. Oh. Boy A was nice about it though so that's good!

Lisa said...

That is just TOO funny! Thanks for a great morning laugh!! :) I think this Boy A definitely deserves some time with you for going thru that! :)

Alaina said...

Yes, Boy A definitely earned himself major points last night. I am definitely intrigued :)

Stephanie said...

WOW! I don't even know what I would have done! That is too crazy.

Erica Layne | Let Why Lead said...

I had a friend who did that right after a date, except her text was more negative than yours. Ooops!

Maybe this guy's flattered that he was at least worthy of texting your friend about. :)

Angie said...

Oh no! You must have wanted to crawl into a hole and die.

At least you didn't break the poor boy's heart by writing about how wonderful this other guy was.

You know, Allen has a single brother. ;) He lives in Washington, though....

NatAttack said...

BAH! I will have to monitor my laughing around you now.

But really, I'm so so sorry, I feel your pain.

Know what will make the pain go away? It's starts with Eur and ends with ROPE.

Erica Layne | Let Why Lead said...

I just re-read your post and realized that you didn't actually send it to the guy you were talking about. (Guess I failed reading comprehension in elementary school.) In that case, it could be worse, right?!

Katie B. said...

I LAUGHED OUT LOUD!!! I did that. Luckily I married him.

Unknown said...

this is very funny...
you have shingles? that stinks, I'm sorry